Rule 1: You shall communicate at all times
It might seem obvious, but you can't imagine the number of problems that arise from not communicating what you think. Speak openly and honestly with your roommates about any problems that arise. Whether you're upset because someone left dirty dishes in the sink or because your music is too loud late at night, open communication is key to resolving conflicts before they turn into a cold war in the living room.
Rule 2: You shall honor the house rules
They say rules are made to be broken, but in this case, if you want a happy stay, it's best to respect them. Who is responsible for taking out the trash? How are shared expenses managed? Establishing some basic rules like cleanliness, noise levels, shared food, guests, from the beginning can prevent misunderstandings later on. Don't worry, you don't have to draft a UN peace treaty! Just a few simple guidelines to keep things in order.
Rule 3: If it's not your space, you shall respect it
Remember that you're not living alone, so respect your roommates' space and privacy. Avoid borrowing their things without permission, and remember that "borrowing" is not the same as "borrowing and never returning."
Rule 4: Your best friends shall be cleanliness and respect
We know that cleanliness can always be tedious (even though for some it may be therapeutic), but the basic rule of sharing a flat is: keep the common areas clean and always clean up after yourself.
And just as one day all roommates may throw a party, there will be others who wish to sleep early or study, so always be mindful of this and you can always listen to music or watch movies with your headphones.
Rule 5: Living together is always a good thing
You're in a new country, with new people from different parts of the world. Why not start making friends from your new home? You can always learn new recipes, another language, and traditions firsthand.
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